Once “It” happens to all girls. Contrary to cock-and-bull books’ stories, that this process is accompanied by pain, having forgotten mum’s cautions, that only after the REGISTRY OFFICE, having laughed at barbarous custom to hang out the bedsheets soiled by blood on a general view after the wedding, you allow saying to yourself “farewell, virginity ” and give up on your partner’s persuasions and petting.

First timidly you straighten out the skirt which has come upwards, then your vigilance weakens and you, having directed towards pleasures, allow your beloved man’s hands and lips visit those places they wish to.

“If you do not want, we will not do that! I’ll just take your panties off you, so it will be more convenient to please you. Agree? Only don’t be afraid: all depends on your desire “, – words interrupt kisses, and the underwear flies away. After a while man’s pants join your panties. Bodies weave together. A bed dancing in a room is similar to the ship during a storm. Moan is lost in a throat. One more attempt and virgin hymen is torn …

First night is a sacrament of female sensuality rising, and not a painful defloration process (defloration – is tearing a hymen). The slightest tactlessness is enough to fix a negative reflex to a sexual intercourse in the girl’s mind. If the man will not show tenderness and understanding, then the deprived virginity by the hurrying partner girl can get frigidity developed. Among frigid women the majority complains about men’s roughness during the first sex. Therefore you should allow depriving you of virginity only to a loving and beloved, and also, it is desirable, to a non virgin partner, instead of a simply nice guy on whom, as you consider, you are ready to assign mission of introduction yourself into a rank of a woman as the age has already passed a critical mark. Virginity – is not a barrier between the childhood and an adult life which should be overcome as soon as it is possible. Remember, that defloration is always accompanied by fear of pain and involuntary reduction of vaginal muscles, hampering a penis. It is necessary for you to relax, and then all will go easier. And the man should act softly, with tenderness, but confident, as well as always, the golden mean here is important: hurry slowly. Thenyou will go through hymen tearing practically without any pain.
Hymen – is a fold of a mucous vaginal membrane which closes an opening into it and is placed in 2-3 centimeters from small lips of pudendum. Each woman owns a unique hymen, as its size, kind, form, thickness, supply by blood vessels and nerves have specific features. Therefore all women go through the defloration in different ways. There may be one aperture, big or small, or several apertures at once in the hymen.It is necessary for the menstrual blood to come out.