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I’m virgin too

February 4th, 2007

hello evrbdy.Im 20 and virgin ,I hate this fact.probably the problem is that smtimes Im shy with girls .to kick away my shyness Iv started to smoke hashish,do you think it will help me.if you have any better idea help me

9 Responses to “I’m virgin too”

  1. Oluka Says:

    First of all, it is not smart to do any drugs just to open yourself up. You need to be yourself and be patient. All your going to end up doing on drugs is sleeping with somebody that has slept with a 100 people and your going to end up with a disease and arrested for using drugs. Secondly, why the rush to not be a virgin. Why cant you be proud of being a virgin. I was a virgin until 27 years old. Do not give into the pressures around you because you will turn yourself into a loser.

  2. Fred Says:

    Hi, Myri,
    I would just like to add:
    Congratulations on being a virgin!
    Be yourself, be honest, caring, respectful, and very important, SMILE.
    Listen to others when you talk with girls; Listen to them, and talk about what they want to talk about.
    You can talk about yourself later, when she gets interested in you.
    One can make more friends in a month by listening to others, that in a year having them have to listen to you!
    Show new girls that you are interested in them, and interested in them talking about themselves. You will soon have so many girlfriends, you won’t know what to do with them all!!!!!

  3. Jesushelper Says:

    He wants to take drugs so he could lose his virginity

  4. Densa Says:

    There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age IMO. Take it from someone who lost her virginity fairly young, the sex is not that great if it’s not with someone you really love. Wait until you find someone special.

  5. Mao Says:

    20 isn’t that young to be a virgin. And most women would think it great to be your first!
    Also, smoking hash will not increase your confidence – as you know yourself, it will only make you more paranoid! So try to take it easy on the smoking, or better still, don’t smoke around someone you are trying to impress: it will make you too introverted. I’m sure you know this already: it will relax you to a point, and then you are in a bubble of your own. I smoke myself, so I’m not going to judge you on it, but I don’t smoke when I’m trying to attract someone! Also, be aware of the health risks associated with it.
    Please don’t make your virginity such an issue for yourself. Ok, so the right opportunity hasn’t arisen yet, but it will. And then what? Are you going to get so carried away that it’s all about the sex and you forget about the person you’re lying with? I hope you see what I mean. Be patient, stock up on tips from books or magazines. Learn to approach people with confidence, and be comfortable in yourself. Let it happen naturally, and remember – a woman loves a considerate lover. Think about why you want to lose your virginity so badly – will anyone do? You have an advantage over most hasy people (have to hold my hand up to that one) in that you can decide now what you do and don’t want in a sexual partner, so you can be more selective. It would be nice to look back and be glad you waited for something that felt right, wouldn’t it?
    Best of luck, and meanwhile – relax x

  6. nero Says:

    I think there is nothing wrong to be a virgin at 20 years old. As what i mention before In singapore it is too common for a 20 years old still being a virgin. Also being a virgin at 20 years old, there is nothing to be shy about. It’s what u think is the most important. I think u should also try not to smoke so much as it is bad for yr health. Hope u understand what i mean. That what i think.

  7. gmsny Says:

    Im 17 and have had many mates who do drugs and smoke not to mention brag about the amount of girls they have had. I have found it hard over the years to say no but i just have its like a built in thing with me i just say no infact im quite proud of the fact i have never smoked done drugs ar any of that HONESTLY,and as for the girls I no there just liying so many shallow lies lol, i am a virgin and have com close to intercourse but it was a long way from home on holiday and we simply just kissed all day and night what im trying to say to you is HELL FATE SEEMS TO SORT THESE PROBLEMS OUT thats really all i can say life will just take its toll

    TRUST ME…

  8. gmsny Says:

    whoa you were kidding about that whole virgin till 27 thing right?? lol :)

    i know you want to encourage people but be honest here

    or did you happen to spend all your time in your parents’ basement with no job. no j/k

    either that or acne or some kind of physical abnormality. ah well everyone loses it eventually regardless, or so i was told. even if they have to start with sub-par women and build up, it’s alright.

    but about the drugs. yeah that’s bad don’t do them definately it messes you up

  9. sugar Says:

    i have to say that i totally agree with you on this!

    i am 20, turning 21 in 4 months, and i have never had sex
    i don’t feel the need to rush things at all, and i believe in sex after marriage so i’m kinda saving it for the person i will spend the rest of my life with.

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