Comments on: question about virginity

By: virginboy

virginboy — Thu, 20 May 2010 14:26:45 +0000

Virginity is the best thing you can give to your husband. I like to share my view, I’m happily married with 3 kids. My wife was not a virgin anymore when I married her, I knew it before, but I thought it was not that important. But as I grow older, now 45, it haunts me since I have not tasted popping a cherry. I should have experienced it from her. Somehow I wish that I can experience it somewhere. I live in Asia and I’m an asian, but I guess that doesn’t matter, men are men, and he wants his wife to be her first. It makes him feel proud and complete and have full respect of her.
So, you virgins, don’t be ashamed. You should be proud to keep it until marriage. It is the most precious thing you can give to your husband. Make him proud, and surely he will love you till the end.

By: Densa

Densa — Sun, 19 Aug 2007 16:13:18 +0000

Yeah….. its nothing wrong in staying virgin. Infact it is good to stay virgin till you find one whome u really love and will finally end up with him.
I have 4 bf’s before this new bf. and i am still a virgin. we live together. we foreplay when we want to have sex……and we dont want to do it till we r married coz we want to have the thrill and that special feeling of us both losing our virginity. Its been a 2yrs till now and we still have the heat between us.

so i would say sex is not the only thing for a relationship. understanding others feelings and respecting them is main. Dont worry about others who lost it at the early age. Be proud that you r not so easy like others and wait for ur man. loose it in a very special way…..it will be wornderful.

By: Val

Val — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 16:25:28 +0000

Just to turn the table. Yes, it makes you ignorant and inexperienced when it comes to the “right person” for you. You may say, Oh, but I want to save my virginity till I find the person I love the most, my soulmate, etc. But what if you go months with someone you feel is the right one, and when you both decide to go sexual, Uh Oh, someone’s disfigured! Well, you just wasted months of time on someone and you got nothing out of it, why? Because you waited so damn long to have sex and ruined your relationship due to inexperience or disfigurement, or abnormalities. I think in order to find “the one” you need to engage in a sexual relationship.

By: WarHeart

WarHeart — Fri, 17 Aug 2007 07:26:13 +0000

theres absolutely nothign wrong with being a virgin. i think its retarded how kids in my school go bang whoever just because they’re “embarrassed” about their virginity. its nothing to be ashamed of. I wouldnt lose my virginity unless ive known the guy for a while and i trust him….and of coures when i’ve decided that im old enough and ready.

By: keefersmom

keefersmom — Wed, 15 Aug 2007 00:26:03 +0000

No! Stay a virgin for as long as you can. I got pregnant first time I let a guy get to me! It’s no fun loosing your friends and your freedom. When you find the guy you want to marry THEN think about it. Not before

By: Ixododae

Ixododae — Tue, 14 Aug 2007 18:14:44 +0000

It’s hard to keep it up, especially through your junior year when everyone is. But when you still are and get to college, you get dates much easier Stay a flirt and your week will never get boring

By: ktlyneeee

ktlyneeee — Sun, 12 Aug 2007 21:18:34 +0000

its definatly not a bad thing

technically im not a virgin- but ill be a secondhand virgin until marriage

By: miss_amanda

miss_amanda — Sat, 11 Aug 2007 10:25:01 +0000

Yeah you shouldn’t care one iota bout the other people at school. if your a virgin still and they claim they arent then your one up on them. most would be lying to get a repuation anyways

dont let peer pressure make you have sex. you will end up regretting it. trust me on that one. wait until you are 110% ready for it. you shouldn’t be embarressed to be a virgin.

i lost mine when i don’t think i was ready for it emotionally. i still regret it to this day. so wait until your ready for yourself and not because you dont wanna feel left out.

By: virtuosogal

virtuosogal — Fri, 10 Aug 2007 18:48:07 +0000

If you’re afraid to do it… don’t. Its not a big deal to be a virgin. It just means you’re more mature than those other idiots who wanted to have sex early. Besides…. do you want to risk getting an STD? I don’t think so. Just stick to your guns and don’t worry about what everyone else is doing or what everyone else says. You know in your heart that its the right thing to do.

Stay strong!

By: rgNet

rgNet — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 19:37:05 +0000

Most of the people who say they’re not virgins at schools are LYING.. trust me on that! Anyway… dont have sex just to fit in.. you’ll regret it big time..
wait until you find someone you love

By: mangaluvr

mangaluvr — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 07:25:08 +0000

because a lot of ppl aren’t at my school, and i kinda feel left out… i just havent found that rly special person yet, you know?

By: rgNet

rgNet — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 19:17:24 +0000

Exactly, it is not bad to be a virgin, infact its quite a good thing to be a virgin..
(too bad im not)

By: sexonthebeach

sexonthebeach — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 21:41:49 +0000

No, only if you are an immature kid who think sex is all that matters.