Virginity, it is important for you or not?
April 5th, 2007Virginity, it is important for you or not?
Female virginity is determined by the physical attribute: presence or absence of the undamaged hymen. Does it have any importance for the modern man?
Is the girl who, so to say, had no vaginal intercourse and still has all attributes of virginity, but thus participated in the exciting petting, sucked, did the darkstar, still a virgin?
I shall tell you at once, it has no importance for me.



























April 6th, 2007 at 12:26 pm
Well i mean i dont wanna say that virginity aint important to me but i will tell you that i dont believe its da most important thing in my life i mean as a teen who doesnt have her virginity…i cant sit here and tell u dat you haveta have your virginity but im not incouraging you to lose it either..its realli up to you as a person if your ready to lose it or not
April 6th, 2007 at 1:11 pm
As a guy, it did matter to me, and sex is very special to me.
I’d never simply go out and make love to someone who isn’t important to me, in the past I have, but they were mistakes. Fucking stupid mistakes.
When people don’t think virginity is special, or to them think that sex is not special, it sort of scares me; but its their choice I think.
April 7th, 2007 at 1:43 am
It doesn’t matter to me any more!
But before i met my current boyfriend i was a virgin, and although i had a boyfriend (now an ex) for a year and a half we never had sex.
My boyfriend couldn’t believe i was still a virgin at 17 when i had been dating a 21 year old. But it was important to me and considering i started daing my ex when i was a month shy of 16 i was hardly ready to be having sex.
My boyfriend didn’t loose his virginity until he was 18 because he was waiting for the right time and when he did loose it he had been in a stable relationship (but not with me) for a while and both he and his ex felt ready, he thought virginity was something not to be given up lightly.
April 7th, 2007 at 1:47 am
Well, I’m not a virgin now and I really don’t regret losing it when I did. I was ready and really wanted to. So, I guess to be honest, it wasn’t all that important to me. I’m glad I had sex when I did
April 7th, 2007 at 2:34 pm
My virginity is really important to me. Well, technically I am not a virgin, but that’s not by choice. I was raped many times from when I was almost 5 until I was around 8. But I try to ignore that part of my life and got rid everything having to do with that and pretty much started clean.
So yes, my “virginity” is very very important to me. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 and 1/2 years and people just assume that we’ve had sex because they think it jut happens after you have a boyfriend or girlfriend for over 6-12 months. I think it’s stupid. I am in love with my boyfriend and trust him completely but I am not at all in any way ready to have sex. When I am ready, it will be to someone I truly care about and love. It will possibly and most likely be after I am married. I do think that within the last few years, once I knew and understood what went on in my childhood, my virginity became a lot more important to me. Before it was a distant thing and I figured I would lose it when I lose it. Now I realize how important it is, and I know what it is like for that to be taken away, or lost to someone you regret losing it to.
April 7th, 2007 at 2:35 pm
ktlyneeee; you’re a virgin… at least in my mind; virginity is when you lose it by choice.
It’d good to hear you’re staying strong by the way : )
Much respect
Sorry to hear what happened though
April 7th, 2007 at 11:27 pm
You can tear a hymen through sports or even things like yoga
So thats hardly a good working definiton of virgin
April 8th, 2007 at 12:35 am
Its been around for 19 years, It’s almost starting to grow on me…
It should hopefully be getting ready to bugger off soon though.
April 8th, 2007 at 12:36 am
Virginity is a concept.
Its physical attributes in my mind are irrelevent. Unwilling sex cannot remove that concept, nor can technicalities perserve it. I am not a religious person and feel the concept of virginity is irrelevent, but if you do believe its important for religious reasojns, Religions seldom rely on the actions, but rather more often on the emotions, ideas, ethics and strength of will behind that decision.
Do I think the concept of Abistinence is stupid? No. In fact, I belive that like many things in the bible, it was constructed to help. The bible tells people not to eat red meat, how to be clean and various other “scientific” facts. Abstinence is no different. STDs were a big deal all through History.
That said, If two people feel the need to expiriment sexually, so long as it is done responsibly, it is not immoral or stupid. The key word there being responsibly.
April 8th, 2007 at 4:55 am
my virginity is really important so i’m saving it for a really special guy. Its one of the only things im actually proud of because i’ve had the chance to lose it a couple of times and have said no. At this moment in time im not ready to lose my virginty.